What do you think is the hardest daily
experience that entrepreneurs deal with?
In my 20+ years of being self-employed and owning my own businesses, I know what it is for me. When I speak to clients, the same thing inevitablyarises in our conversations even when it’s not the presenting topic.
This song might clue you in…
At the very least, (if you are old enough) it will bring back memories!
Listen in while you read.
If you don’t have a practice and system in place to absorb and detach from the ups and downs of good days/bad days – lots of sales/few sales – many clients/many cancellations, you find yourself on an emotional roller coaster. The ups and downs can not only effect your attitude, but they can effect the energy that you put out into the world and thus the results that you get back.
I doubt I must go into detail about how this emotional roller coaster feels. You know the jubilation
when you bring on board a new customer or account. You have sat quietly with th3
disappointment of “sure thing” that went sour. We all have.
One of the keys to entrepreneurship success is not eliminating the ups and downs – it’s developing a way to ride those waves smoothly. Your daily action plan and your daily mindset plan must be such that you remain consistent and believing in yourself and your mission, regardless of what occurs on the outcome end.
There are many ways to do this, and of course I have two favorites.
Meditation teaches you that you are not your mind. You are not your experiences. It teaches you how to fully engage in each moment while at the same time remaining unattached so that you can in fact stay the course and absorb the bumps.
Mentorship or a “coach on retainer” gives you a person to reach out to, especially when you are feeling low or immenselychallenged. We tend to be Lone Rangers, those of us who step outside the box and take an unorthodox path. Yet especially for us, having a sounding board,
and someone who can present all sides of our story back to us – is crucial for
emotion health as entrepreneurs.